Marriage: Heaven or Hell

“If marriage means you fell in love   ,

 does divorce mean you climbed out.”

Marriage means a bond, a love that two people share with one another till their death.

They promise to stay together forever. But these days we witness many failed marriages.

Divorce is a matter of concern in India even now. Though in India the divorce rate is

Slower than the European countries but it is tremendously increasing day by day.

The present generation does not know the meaning of true love. It is a fun loving

generation. Some men treat their wives as their puppets and think now they can

                     control them. Why?

Swami Vivekanand quote,” every woman in our country is a queen.”

Every woman deserves respect, love and time.

Woman are treated brutally and are beaten up. Nowadays women are

Independent still some are not courageous to get out of this hell, whereas

                            Some are quite audacious to take this step.

There are so many reasons for broken marriage:

                                                   -extra marital affair

-marriage is done against the wish of boy or girl

                                                    -mother in law-daughter in law conflicts

                                                     -Interference of parents of girl in married life

                                                     -consuming alcohol and threatening wife

                                                   Endless more reasons are there and these all reasons affect children.

Now the question is -do anyone of us thought that our married life would

go this way? No. Both boy and girl suffers in broken marriage.

                                   Now how to reduce the conflicts between couples:-

Therapists suggests that -accept your partners feelings, shut down your

reactive brain, Get to work on yourself, reestablish contact and

                                      try to figure out the problem in both of you.

Marriage is not the game. It is the most crucial and most prudent decision

Of life.  Partners have to make efforts for themselves and their family.

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times,

                                            always with the same person.”